Don’t

  • Stand on the threshold when entering the Ger/house
  • Refuse offered drink or food in the Ger/house (it’s customary for Mongols to offer tea and food as a welcoming omen), at least taste little bit and give back
  • Whistle inside a Ger
  • Lean against the pillars in the Ger
  • Throw water or rubbish into the fire (fire is sacred!)
  • Touch other people’s hat or especially, man’s head
  • Walk over the Uurga (horse catching pole)
  • Point at someone with a single finger
  • Pee in any waters in nature such as lakes, rivers, streams ever! (Water is sacred)
  • Spill milk/dairy in river, well, lakes
  • Talk or joke about bad things that may happen
  • Estimate travel hours as drivers believe it brings evil on the trip
  • Ask names of big mountains while the mountain is still in sight
  • Say thank you too much or for small gestures
  • Forget to pack a small medical kit and personal toiletries for countryside trip
  • Step over dishes and cooking utensils
  • Put your feet up onto table

Do

  • Greet the people when entering the Ger
  • Give/receive presents with both hands
  • Try to speak Mongolian even if it’s just Hello (sain bainuu?), Thank you (Bayarla!), or Bye (bayartai!)
  • Enter or leave Ger through the left
  • Accept food or drink with your right hand or both hands
  • Receive the snuff bottle and gently loosen the top without removing it
  • Bring some small gifts such as stationery for children
  • Always get on horseback from the left
  • Watch over your wallet/purse. Pickpocketing is common in crowded places
  • Shake the hands of someone who you have accidentally bumped feet with
  • Take plenty of bottled water while traveling in the Gobi
  • Base camps have boiler systems. Ask to warm shower water 30 minutes prior to your use
  • In museums and other entertainment venues, always ask for permission before taking photos
  • Accept food and drink, touch and sip, then give it back if you don’t want more.